We've been spending too much time together!

I've been meaning to write a post about Makili-isms, but they're getting away from me. It's been more than a month now that Raph and I have been laughing about the way he says "No say me no!" anytime we tell him no. But he's taken on some new phrases from my vocabulary, I'm sorry to say.

Today Raph was tickling him while they were playing trucks, and Makili turned and said, "Don't piss me off."

Then later, he got in trouble for throwing bells at the window and I put him in time-out. After wailing for a few moments, he used his whiny sad voice to say, "I need attention."

And yesterday he told me, "I need some water, sweetheart."

There are so many it is hard to keep up.

Cranky!!

HARD work

We made gingerbread houses today. I think I might be a bit over anxious for the "kid" stuff. Makili was all about eating the gingerbread men and candy, but not so into decorating the house. He did some, but as you can see from the pix below, it was all me and my new friend Megan (who is due on Sat!) doing all the work. And let me tell you - it was HARD work. Raph said he's never heard me bitch so much! And since there was a lot of baby talk, Makili had to nurse Dirty Wanda a bit more, which you see him doing above. Still makes me laugh. Oh and by the way, we came home, ate a bit of the gingerbread house and now the whole thing just collapsed...

First Snow!

We had our first snow on Sunday morning (it really came on Sat. night), and it was exciting! It was a perfect first snow - a couple inches, and around 30 degrees to play in it. Makili LOVED it! After I convinced him it was okay to step in it of course. He was in tears laughing when he would wipe snow on me off of the car. Unfortunately the camera got switched into a different mode, and I didn't notice that and couldn't figure out why I couldn't get it to expose the pictures properly, so I didn't capture how absolutely beautiful it was.

The funny thing about the snow was, we've been waiting and expecting and waiting and expecting, and now that it is here it seems like it has been here forever. I always expect this first snow fall to melt before we are really under white for the season, but last year it didn't so who knows??? In any case, winter is officially here and I might not see the ground again until the end of March, but as I learned from Makili yesterday, that doesn't mean you can't play soccer in the snow in the dark. We played soccer last night after dark for 45 minutes. It was pretty fun...

Before I totally move on...

In the last two weeks, I made:

50 quilted cards30 hand-decorated seed-packs


200 hair clips (thanks Becly for the display idea)13 or 14 strings of doily snowflakes


two hand quilted linen lap quilts that I LOVE!
not bad...

Thanksgiving 2009, part II

Well the craft fair is over! I sold $150 worth of hair clips, rock magnets, and seed packets. (no biters on the doily snow-flakes, hand-made cards, pottery, or quilts, but that's okay because I have lots of gifts!) I can finally pay attention to my children again and clean my house enough to walk through it. Oh and maybe speak to my husband instead of barking at him to take the kids somewhere so I can get something done. AND I can maybe get it together to post a bit more often. To be honest, part of the lack of recent posting has been due to the fact that I recently went through ALL the picture on the computer, printed out the ones I wanted (1200!!!), and have prepared them to be put on the external hard-drive, since we are OUT OF SPACE! So I've been waiting for Raph to move them and delete them and enjoy that 35 gigs of free space! That hasn't happened yet, but I got tired of waiting.

These are the pictures from the second half of our wonderful Thanksgiving. We are so lucky! It is on days like these that I count my blessings and enjoy the fact that I don't live 5000 miles away from my family. Though there is snow on the ground outside (we're expecting 3 inches!). I didn't have that when I lived 5000 miles away. Worth it though, I think.

Thanksgiving 2009, part 1

Finally downloaded some pictures. That's a bit of a long story. I'm still knee-deep in craft projects to write much, but we had a terrific holiday weekend...

OMG

I am not sure what I was thinking when I allowed myself to be convinced this morning that I would participate in a craft show in less than TWO WEEKS! I can barely find time to shower? How the hell I am going to produce enough wares in TWO WEEKS is an excellent question. I think I was lured into it by the idea that I'd either be left (after two insano weeks!) with some money in my pocket or a bunch of stuff I can give as gifts. I wish I could sleep better. Like right now I should be sleeping or sewing or doing something useful. But I can't. I'm just wishing I could.

Buddies for the moment

I requested a bunch of books from the library this week which is sort of a good joke, because realistically when do I get to read books? Extra books? Cause I mostly have to read the book for my class, and then there's the book group book that never gets read, so requesting books? Ha! But a miraculous thing happened. Apparently, I accidentally requested the book-on-tape version of Siblings Without Rivalry instead of the actual book. And as I was standing there in the library to pick it up, I almost said, "No I wanted the real book." And then it dawned on me! I might actually be able to listen to a book!

So we've been listening to Siblings in the car for the last few days. Raph can't stand the women's voices, but I think it's been fairly instructive. I'm a little worried that Makili is taking it all in and will therefore be able to outsmart me, but so far I think it will be helpful. Has anyone out there read this book and found it to be helpful? I have to admit that on an emotional day, I cried a few times thinking about my own siblings. We are all so different, and have totally different strengths. I hope they know that I am proud of them, even if I can't always relate to them...

I think the book will be more helpful down the line, but right now, I have to say, Makili is pretty darn fond of Remick. If he wakes up and finds me in the living room, he's quick to ask, "Where's Remick?" Sometimes, he'll even say, "I want to play with Remick." (This of course means tackling him and smothering him with his love, but playing nonetheless.) Makili is also really into telling you that he loves things lately. He probably tells me he loves me dozens of times a day, and each time he usually follows it up with, "And I love Remick too. And I love Daddy too." (Sometimes he also throws a combination of Annma, Paka, Grammy, Opa, and tractors in there too.)

Remick for his part is also pretty fond of his brother. There are days when his whole person lights up when he sees Makili for the first time. It's like that is who he has been waiting to see! He tolerate Makili's doting so well too. Makili will be "hugging" him so that he can barely breathe and certainly can't see the toy he was just touching, and Remick will just chill out waiting for Makili to be done (which is usually when I'm yelling "space in the face!")

I can't wait to see their brotherhood develop. I hope they can continue to enjoy each other as they get older (though I'm expecting the fighting too), but right now I'm just loving that that like each other.

I forgot to mention

As a part of my recounting of yesterday I forgot to mention two small pieces of my day, which I only remembered now because my house still smells like smoke.

First, in on of my try-to-be-a-good-mom moments, I was trying to pop the popcorn that we grew this summer. It is very dry, which I know is part of the process so I stuck a cob in the microwave to see how it would taste. And I waited for the popping. It did eventually start popping. Unforuntately at about the same time, the cob started burning and filled the microwave with black smoke. We tried to eat the good bits, but they tasted too smoky.

THEN the teenage helper, Sam, (whose Dad also happens to be a fireman) was over and I was trying to make the salad for dinner. I was toasting the almonds, which frequently results in burnt almonds. Well, jsut as I noticed that they were black, and opened the door to pull them out, the whole tray burst into flames. My entire toaster was full of black smoke sneaking out the sides. Sam, worries, asked seriously, "do you want me to call my dad?" I assure her I can handle it and with over mitts proceed to carry the flaming toaster outside. It is still sitting on the back patio.

I jsut want you all to know the entirety of yesterday.

How we pass our days...

I got up this morning at six or whatever ungodly hour we get up around here. I put forth a good effort to be a good mom. I played with Makili in the "restaurant" (see below), cleaned up a bit with Makili's help, got myself a cup of coffee, gave Remick attention, etc. And then I was tired. And I realized IT WAS ONLY 9:00!

So I went to the Family Resource Center but they didn't actually have a play group this morning. They let me stay anyway until Makili had a meltdown because I wouldn't let him eat unlimited donuts (I cut him off at two munchkins. I don't think they should even put them out at a place like that to be honest). So we left and I tried to drop off my defective nursing bras at the UPS store, but I couldn't get across the bridges. The big bridge had major traffic so I tried the bypass bridge, but the bridge was up, so I gave up and turned around. Makili asked to go to the playground, so I thought I'd give "the good mom" thing another try and headed there. Unfortunately I got there and had to go to the bathroom so bad I decided I just wanted to go home, plus the whole playground was wet. So I coerced Makili into leaving and went home at which point it was ONLY 11:00 and I thought to myself "how am I ever going to make it until nap time?!"

During nap time, I taught writing to some homeschoolers down the street, which was actually fun, but right about the time we were wrapping up, my teenage helperouter showed up even though she had never called me to say whether she was able to come AND she was there an hour earlier than the previous time AND my kids were still asleep, which made her help less useful.

I used my "free" time to go running while Raph cut up the firewood, a project that never seems to end. And now it's bed time. But here are a few pictures from our days.


Makili now does this puzzle quickly without any help at all. Pretty good for a two-year-old.I was wrapping some Christmas presents this morning so I can deliver them with people and avoid the shipping and Makili was helping. He kept asking, "where's my present. Finally he went and got his lego tractor and wanted to wrap it up for himself." Slef-manipulation is a good skill.
Remick's eyes look a bit like my brother's in this picture. Raph liked watching him chew on one of his favorite toys (I'm glad noone else bought this Nadine!)
And this is Makili's new favorite thing. This box is his "restaurant." He like me to sit outside with a plate and say,, "Hey pizza man! Where's my pizza? I'm hungry!" At which point he dives through the doors and onto the ground. There is little pizza involved, but he loves the dramatic entry, you know...

I am showing this to MAkili and I realized that he no longer calls Remick "wreck" or "rick", but actually says Remick...

N-A-U-G-H-T-Y

This is actually not a picture of naughty. This picture is Makili wearing Remick's sumo wrestler costume, which made me laugh so hard I let him keep it on. Unfortunately, he thought it was a diaper (it does sort of fit like one) and had a full-on adult sized crap on the rug. And he had a meltdown too because he was so upset about it. Thankfully Raph was home that day and I didn't have to scrub the rug and the kid (just the rug!)

But Makili has been demonstrating naughty lately. Like when he stuck a pretzel nugget in Remick's mouth. Or when he dumped all the ashes from the fire (they're in a box underneath) onto the floor so that he could "dig" with his immense tractor collection. He's been a real pistol lately. He's also taken to calling Raph and I by our first names if we don't answer fast enough. He'll be in his room for nap emphatically yelling, "mom, mom, mom." Then a pause. "Blayne. Blayne. Blayne." It actually makes me laugh. I'll have to remember to write down some more of the naughties, because they are pretty funny retrospectively. (except the crap on the floor. that wasn't so funny.)

Cankles and...?

Remick definitely has some major cankles (no difference between calf and ankles, mom, sine I know you'll ask me later what that means), but Tamara pointed out last night that he doesn't have any knees. They're like little dimples instead. Is there a name for that? Thalves? Any ideas? (Yes, sleep deprivation is contributing to this post.)

Portrait of Some Serious Cheeks