Tuesday, March 17, 2009

The Winds of Change Are Upon Us.

Makili is changing rapidly. Some things, like his exploding language abilities are awesome. (This morning when I was sitting on the toilet, he came in and said "Mama poops bath," meaning after I poop I should take a bath.) Other things like his new tantrum throwing are a whole lot less awesome. So I thought I document some things about him right now...

His favorite foods are apple sauce and avocados and beans and broccoli. He has suddenly started eating lots of things he wouldn't eat before: asparagus, mushrooms, cucumbers, green beans and tomatoes. At the same time, he is a whole lot less interested in cheese and bread products. He eats a lot.

His favorite thing without contest is "the ball." He says and differentiates between basketballs (#1 favorite), footballs (#2 favorite), soccer balls, and ping-pong balls. The most dramatic and epic tantrums have come over leaving his balls. Last night he slept all night with a full size basketball. When I went in to get him this morning he was standing there in his crib holding his basket ball. He is learning to catch after months of holding his hands out and letting balls bounce off of them. He is just starting to react and hug the ball to him, so a well-aimed throw might be caught.


Another favorite thing is puzzles, which he has quite a collection of. One of his newer words is "pieces" since he is always looking for the missing pieces. And there are always missing pieces since he throws them all over the house. This morning we were working on an alphabet puzzle and when I came back it was gone - no board, no pieces. When I asked him where it was, he climbed on the couch and pointed behind it. Sure enough he had thrown every bit of that puzzle behind the couch. I guess he was tired of that one.

His favorite books right now are Gloria and Officer Buckle (#1) and Counting Cockatoos, though he likes make books. I'm excited about his interest in Gloria since it is really the first longer book that he has demonstrated the attention span for. I was getting a bit tired of Sandra Boynton books, though he loved them.

As I mentioned before, his language has grown by leaps and bounds suddenly. Bob, the dad of the kids I babysit for, pointed out that all of his kids had language explosions after being sick, which coincidentally has also been the case for us. His list of words is pretty long now, and grows every day. Some of his favorite new words are wet, bike, box, basket, all the ball types (he said ball at least 64 times as I was putting him down for a nap the other day. I counted.), pieces, Jack (which refers to Jack and Sam - the boys I babysit), and bus. We also now understand that "me" actually means "you." When he wants you to do something, he points to you and says "me." He frequently puts more than one word together, particularly when things pertain to Raph. "Daddy's shoe?" he asks or "Daddy outside" when he wants Daddy to take him outside. Everyday more and more. It is really fun!

He continues to climb on everything and do really dangerous stuff all the time, though at other times, he won't try anything without holding our hands. He won't walk on even slightly deep snow without holding our hands, for example, but he'll happily get out his little riding car and stand on it while holding the handle bars and then rock back and forth trying to get it to move. He has gone over the handle bars a few times doing this. He has been jumping for a few months and now will jump/lean off of the changing table to me (I'm hoping this translates to the pool in a few months!) He can easily manuever one normal size stair by himself, or a whole flight with a railing.

He sleeps pretty well - roughly 8:00pm to 5:45 on the dot. It is actually uncanny how predictably he wakes up each morning at 5:45. Sometimes he'll lay in bed with me after that for up to an hour, but often not. Sometimes he wakes in the middle of the night, and I just go to the door, tell him to lay down, and he is fine. Otherwise he'll cry for at least 1.5 hours. I know because we tried that method, until I decided enough was enough.

He likes other kids, though we are entering the "difficulty in sharing" age. He loves to watch the boys I babysit jump around outside in the snow. But inside, he gets upset with them a lot because sharing isn't always something they do well together. He is very proud of himself when he does share, and will have a huge smile on his face that is damn cute.

Sunday, March 15, 2009

Oh my.

This picture cuts right through me. Those shining eyes, the dimples, the booger-crusted nose. Ouch.We went to see Ann this weekend and Raph took Makili skating on the pond out back. He was actually pretty good, though I'm attributing that to the balancing power of his tongue, which you'll see is in action here. He loved it too!





And again. Those eyes!

Friday, March 13, 2009

This message brought to you by John and Gwen


So we didn't actually come to any agreement on a new lens. Though I did make an executive decision and bought the one I want, it's not here yet. But out friends John and Gwen who have a scuba/photography business in Hawaii were done with a Canon XTi and sent it to us with the stock lens. Talk about nice! So here you are. A few photos (cause I'm not used to remembering to use it yet) of Makili biking yesterday, and the resulting fat lip. Though when I took him inside to wash away the rocks and boogers and blood, he had a complete fit, because as he yelled, "bike outside!" How dare I tear him away from his bike, even if he was bleeding and shivering!

Wednesday, March 04, 2009

I like it this video.

I found this on another blog. I like it this video, as my niece Gabrielle would say! I liked more and more as it went on. Evan, you in particular will like it.

Tuesday, March 03, 2009

My new Name

Makili has been saying Daddy for a long time, and though he would occassionally say mama after someone else said, it wasn't frequent and it wasn't usually independent. Now things have changed. I have a name. Apparently I say things like "give me that toy," or "do you want me to help you," or "what do you want me to do?" because I am officially called "ME." Raph thinks it's hilarious. I kind of like it actually.

Monday, March 02, 2009

Allergic Reaction, Fifth Disease, A Mystery!

We have no idea what has caused this incredible rash.


Sunday, March 01, 2009

A Gabrielle-Paka Saga

She started off cute as a button and happy as a clam (love those cliches!)
But then Makili made her mad. (She has a delicate nature!)

Paka came to the rescue and decided to provide some diversion. She loved it. Laura did not.Then the inevitable happened. A little slip. No harm done, but...

Again the delicate nature.
So Paka tries another diversion. And all was well.

A few more shots.
I look ridiculously pregnant and big, but otherwise a nice group shot.

I just liked this silly picture of Ann.

Friday, February 27, 2009

Some more Arkansas shots

Crack kills.


Gabby taught Makili to golf while we were here.




Thursday, February 26, 2009

BFFs







They say that Makili and Gabrielle are too young to play "together."  I'd say that is definitely not true.  They play hide-n-go-seek.   They give each other turns and watch each other go down the slide.  They draw together.  It is pretty amazing how well they get along.  They have similar temperaments - both observers, emotionally tuned into other people, both gentle.  Makili sees a lot of other children in a given week between the kids I babysit for and the kids at the family resource center where we spend some mid-week time, and I've never seen him get along with any other child so well.  It is uncanny and ridiculously cute.  

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Two

Yesterday Makili turned 20 months and strung two words together for the first time. Byebye duck! (When the ducks walked away from him.) That doesn't sound too exciting but it's a big developmental milestone in language, which hasn't been his advanced subject. He's been talking so much more lately, and having his BFF Gabby around who is a huge chatterbox has helped too. I think I'll try to list words I hear him say regularly, though I know I'll forget some.

More
Help
Shoe
Sock
Outside
Inside
NiteNite
Duck
Ball
Cheese
Beans
Snack
Eye
Dada (mama makes a very occassional appearance)
I LOVE You (which sounds nothing like I love you, but is damn cute nonetheless)
Please
Eat
juice
Water
Cat
Dog
Thank you
Hat
Pants
Shirt
Stick
Uh-oh
Up
Down
Block
Slide

ps: I'll post some more pictures of Makili and his best bud Gabby soon.

Monday, February 23, 2009

Arkansas: Part I





We're visiting Gabe, Laura, and Gabrielle in Arkansas, enjoying the 50 degree weather and living it up in general on vacation, a needed vacation after a stressful month.  Here are a few pictures (since they have a functioning camera) with more to follow.


Thursday, February 19, 2009

On Stage

I cannot begin to describe how stressful this month has been. Really i can't even begin. But tonight was Raph's shining moment - his beauty pageant, a chance to compete for the title of Mr. DHS (Dover High School). There was a choreographed dance, displays of western wear and summer wear, an interview, and of course the talent. Raph used his ninja guise all the while. He wore his ninja costume with cowboy boots, and then with his swimming trunks on top. But for his talent, little Makili got to show his stuff. Dressed like a ninja as well, and super tired, Makili loved being on stage. He never actually did all the hi-ya ninja moves that we had practiced in the hall but he was still super cute toting dad around the stage and even said "bye" into the microphone when his show was over. I was so proud!

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

It doesn't take much...

It doesn't take much warmth to make a difference. Enough to melt the snow on the roof of the shed, creating little puddles full of rocks that Makili can play in. It is so nice that when he is bored with the toys inside he gets shoes and a jacket and points to the door.

It doesn't take much soy milk in Makili's hair to look super-stylish.

It doesn't take playing the song "the wheels on the bus" too many times before I want to shoot myself, but Makili never seems to hear it too much and he just rolls his hands in a circle emphatically asking me for more of that particular song.

It doesn't take much...

Saturday, February 07, 2009

We Showered.

These are the last picture I took on my camera before I broke my lens, which may account for why I've procrastinated so much in posting them. But we had a terrific time at Amanda's shower - eating awesome food cooked by Connie, playing fun games organized by Jayme (want to guess who won the poetry contest?), and watching Amanda open her lovely gifts. It was a great time!