Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Today - Year 2, Day 1

Today was Makili's first birthday.  We celebrated his birthday very quietly (the BIG party later to come.)  We hung out and did things we though Makili would like to do - nurse a lot, eat a lot, play tag, walk around the house, play in the water table when not raining, play in the play area at the mall when it was, go to the beach, etc.

He is so big and so cute and yeah.  I'm totally in love.  He is learning so fast these days.  Here he is taking his temperature.
And after I asked "Where's mamma's teeth?"
Feverish eyes (he woke up with a fever this morning, but seems to be okay.)
Waiting for mom to stop taking pictures and play
Getting some loving from dad.



Another treat for his birthday was in the introduction of grains into the diet.  Cereal to be exact.  And I can tell you already there is no turning back.  He prefers cereal to any fruit and really now will only eat fruit as a last resort.  Raph was giving me a hard time because I wasn't feeding him enough vegetables, and now he won't eat fruit either.  Oh well.  He still LOVES to nurse and doesn't seem to think his consuming his bodyweight in fruit is a reason not to nurse.  He does crazy nursing dances while nursing.  It is as though he thinks the proper way to nurse is on his head, because I swear that is the position he is trying to achieve.

At one, Makili is a very good sleeper.  He goes to bed easily at 8:00 after Dad reads him a few books.  His favorite book at the moment is Mr. Wishy-washy, which I think is kind of dumb, but he loves it and made me read it to him eight times last night!  He usually sleeps soundly until about 5:00, when he wakes briefly, goes back to sleep on his own for about 30 more minutes on a usual night. He naps twice a day, though he doesn't tend to go down for naps nearly as easily as he does at night.  The car will do the trick or a bear hug against his will.  We're working on it though.

He isn't walking much yet on his own - a step here, a step there, occasionally two-in-a-row.  Mostly he seems pretty content to crawl and he is lightening fast when he chooses to be.  We play tag frequently and when he sees me get down on all fours, he starts giggling and takes off.  He also loves to tickle, though today tickling seemed a whole lot like pinching, but whose keeping track.

He is very interested in how things work.  He holds the phone up to his ear, the thermometer too, obviously.  When he wants me to read him a book he will pick it up and put it into my hand.  He is interested in my earrings and so as to avoid having him pull them out, I frequently will take one out and hand it to him.  He then will try to put it back on my ear.  It really confounds him as to why it doesn't stay.  He loves blocks and trying to stack them.  He is very good at putting things in holes (we'll see if we can get that video loaded!)  He points to objects in books, like kitty-cat, and moon, and fire.  He can point to mamma's ears and teeth, though he really likes the teeth thing and sometimes that is the only one I can get him to do.  He also knows fan, car, outside, diaper, nite-nite, strawberries, apple-sauce, blue-berries, watermelon, and probably more that aren't coming to mind straight off.

Dancing is a big part of Makili's life.  We tried to capture some good dance moves this morning, like the double fist pump, but he got camera shy when the time came.  Soon enough.  He also wiggles his butt and does the head bob.  He LOVES music of all time.  When he is crying in the car, he will stop crying if I start singing "Powder Blue" a Renee and Jeremy song I LOVE!

Makili had gotten into mini-tantrums when he is taken away from something he likes (the strawberries in the field this weekend, for example).  He is quite vocal and will tell you in his way if he doesn't like something.  "Da" means yes.  "Dooda" is booba, though usually he just tries to make extended eye-contact with me and pucker his lips to get the boob, which I find hilarious.  Really hasn't embraced the signing, though more is the only word I really stressed was "more", but then he started clapping and I might have taken "more" for clapping (they look similar.  Oh well.  He'll be talking soon enough I figure.  

He LOVES dirt and water (very appropriate gift Grammy and Grampy).  He thinks it's okay to sneak a wood-chip in his mouth when we're not looking though.  He could stand outside soaking wet in 50 degree weather playing in the water and not mind at all.  

He loves other kids and watching people in general.  He is an observer.  He watches everyone's every move especially little people (I mean kids.)  Hopefully he isn't picking up bad behaviors.  He LOVES to play games and has such an amazing sense of humor.  He carefully reads your face to see if you're serious.  He laughs at all sorts of things that are out of the ordinary.

I can't believe that he is a whole entire year old.  I can't believe it.  Like I tell Raph all the time, "We are lucky to have eachother."

Monday, June 23, 2008

Welcome to My World, Raph

Raph is officially DONE with his fourth year of teaching.  We enjoyed this weekend together immensely though it actually is a short break.  He begins a research internship especially for teachers on Wednesday.  A pretty sweet gig for six weeks (four day weeks at that) which is well-paid, earns him six credits, and happens to be interesting!  The only draw-back is that it is in Boston and Lowell, an hour commute each way.  He'll be sharing the commute (and gas) with a friend who has the same job, but it is still an additional two hours away from home.  

So we tried to live it up this weekend, despite my working schedule.  I had to do exchange student stuff on Saturday in Portland, a place we both would like to explore more.  It was an international fair/market and while I sat there trying to persuade people to host exchange students, he strapped Makili to his back and took him to the Children's Museum.  For like four hours and had a terrific time.  Makili was awesome - slept both the way there and the way home, played and smiled at everyone, and was generally amiable.

On Sunday we went Strawberry Picking with Tim and Tamara.  Makili caught onto the concept very quickly and was almost immediately stuffing his face with anything red connected to the leaves, whether it was rotten or not.  He was completely covered in strawberry juice (sorry grammy about that new green hooded shirt you got him - it was really cute.)  He threw a complete tantrum when we took him away, but was quickly distracted by rocks and sticks in another area.  We went back to T&T's and made an absolutely FABULOUS soup/salad combo.  Tim ate kale for the first time (??Seriously??) and then we played RISK!  I want all of you to know that I am currently the raining Kittery champion of Risk and Tim has vowed never to try to take over Asia again.  He had a lot of LOUD and adamant advice despite the fact that he lost.

And today I had to work and it rained ALL day, but the kids were spectacular and played well together for so long.  Jack and Sam helped me to paint some BEAUTIFUL decorations for Makili's birthday party in two weeks.  Raph cleaned the house and Larry's car and then came and took Makili so that I could have 3 instead of 4 for a little while.  He played with him and had good ol' daddy time.  And we topped it off with some really excellent swiss-chard quesadillas and conversation.  And tomorrow - the BIG DAY - coming.  It is supposed to rain, which is sort of a bummer as we had hoped to take Makili to the farm for his birthday, but doesn't look like that will happen this week.  We'll think of something else fun.

Saturday, June 21, 2008

Cankles (for Austin)

Here is our new neighor/friend, Cankles. He likes the sod that we tore up to make the raised beds. He also likes the sun. I was all excited about Cankles, and took this picture to show Raph.
He started going on and on, "Garder snakes don't have teeth. They can't hurt you." he told me.
"I have no intention of touching it," I told him.
"They can bite you though, but they also poop on you."
"Raph, I'm not going to touch it."
"You know how usually you hold a snake by the head so it doesn't bite you? Well a garder snake will wrap it's body around your arm and rub stinky poop all over you."
"Raph, what part of I WILL NOT BE TOUCHING THE SNAKE do you not understand?"
"Just thought you should know."

So anyway this is our new friend Cankles. If my nephew Austin was here he would pick him up and Raph and he could talk about stinky poop.

Here is the miracle of the month. I kept my Valentine's gift from my dad, a gardenia (my favorite flower) alive long enough for it to bloom. We even brought it to Ann and Larry's house last weekend so I wouldn't miss any of the glorious fragrance.And can you tell Makili is SOAKING wet here? He sure doesn't seem to mind.

Friday, June 20, 2008

Sant Bani Hike / Baby Fest

As a part of Sant Bani's alumni weekend (the school the Raph attended through 9th grade), we went on a hike to the top of Piper Mountain. It was lovely - just the right short length. Good Times...






Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Another one finished!

Ny and Abram's very late wedding gift. As an indication of how late, check out pictures of their baby below!

Radishes, Fun with Dad, and New Diversion

Yup. We're harvesting radishes. They're SPICY! Who knew?

Makili loves being tickled!
We opened a birthday present from Grandma today because the box was so big we didn't have anywhere to keep it until Tuesday. Such a cute water/sand table. A toy for Makili, but not just that. It means I can hang laundry or work in the garden. It may mean the deer (who recently walked straight through the farthest bed (with only a small nibble of cauliflower) might stay away. Nadine says they haven't ever had trouble with deer and she thinks it is because they have so many kids' toys strewn across the yard that the deer are frightened to go near. Who knows, but until there is a fence, I'll go with it!

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Fountain of Magic


When I was a kid, my dad was the epitome of magic. I thought he could fix anything. He would jump into any water, no matter how cold. He would wear shorts and socks EVERY DAY of the year, even though the winter. He would snow blow the whole block barefoot. He even slept in the snow once just to prove that he could. I remember running down stairs in the morning to see if he was indeed REALLY still out there. He knew magic tricks and would always pull money out of ears. He would greet everyone he knew in Spanish (which he didn't speak) by saying "Como esta to ombligo?" "How is your belly button?" He never lost at cards, chess, pig or any other game. He tied a rope swing in our front yard that barely missed the cars wizzing by, which we loved and cars hated. He loved pranks, like setting up a water-balloon launcher that was targeted to land on the front porch from the back porch and inviting our friends over just to soak them. Once he sprinkled change all over the front walkway to watch my brother and I scramble all over each other trying to get it. Another time he took us to Pharmor and gave us each $100 to spend (a fortune at the time). He gave us unusual gifts, like one year both my brother and I got new unicycles, though to this day neither of us really know how to ride one.

My Dad had a liver transplant when I was in 9th grade. I don't think that at that age I truly understood the significance of what he was up against, the enormous obstacle his body posed. I never truly understood that he was on the brink of death. I can't even imagine what the previous 15 years would have been like without him. I surely wouldn't be the same person I am today. My confidence most surely flows from the fountain of magic my dad provided. I can just see the look on his face when I had a new idea I wanted to go with. Like in 6th grade, for the robotics competition, I wanted to make a house-keeper robot that would sweep the floor. We tried all kinds of contraptions to get the robot to sweep on its own, and some of them worked, but MHR (which stood for Most Helpful Robot) seemed most effective when you stood behind her (plywood woman cutout with apron tied on) and pulled strings attached to her arms. I won the competition for the record, one of a gazillion times my dad's confidence in me spurred my own internal confidence. I am so glad my dad has been around and I am so glad that my dad is part of Makili's life and can share his magic with him.

Saturday, June 14, 2008

I do love Cindy's portrait lens!

Some pictures of the new parents






First time eating asparagus."Auntie Cindy" (who is really a Grandma.)
Thai outfits.
Little Zoey, Makili's buddy.

Big Daddy

I'm so lucky to be sharing this life adventure with Raph, my perfect foil. So fortunate to share life and parenting with such a patient, generous, gentle, good person and dad. I am lucky and so is Makili.

As if that's not enough Cuteness

As if Kane wasn't enough
I've also been getting to play with Mila Virginia Prahl
(the second youngest in the extended MAtty clan)
3.5 months old and desperate to communicate.



Introducing

Kane Lucas Huber
(the newest in the extended Matty clan
born to Ny and Abram, Raph's cousin and our good friend.)
born on Wednesday June 11, 2008


There is nothing to rekindle wonder like a newborn.



First Things First



Before I get ahead of myself and start posting the gazillion BEAUTIFUL pictures of babies from this weekend, I've got to post a few pix from my book club which met on Thurs at the beach. How cool is that anyway? To meet with your book club on the beach! An amazing bunch of women who are so interesting and inspiring.

Thursday, June 12, 2008

I just got my sewing machine fixed yesterday and was able to finish up a few projects. Many more to come including the prize for winning the comment contest two months ago. (Sorry Laurie and Ana. I'm working on it.) Anyway I never can just go partway with something. I started making bibs, so instead of making a few I made 40.
This is my attempt at machine quilting myself, since this quilt is much smaller than many that I make. It turned out okay, though I think doing this is how I broke my machine.
The real work this week was creating these two terraced beds for tomatoes and potatoes.

Here you see after the tractor came and we laid the corn bed down.
And here you see the two beds. The tomato plants have already been planted as you can see in the second bed. Look how much greener the tree is in just a little over a week's time.